a glimpse of responsibility.
assalamualaikum.
inshaAllah, if all goes well, i will be graduating in 18 months' time.
just another 3 semesters to go.
and i bet it will go so fast.
graduating means the end of degree life,
and the beginning of the real life.
whether or not i continue my studies doesn't really make any difference.
'coz commitments has already been made by then.
i got carried away with "planning the future" in my head this evening.
i started looking up online about car loans and house loans.
and talked about it with my mother as well.
well, she is my best friend. of course i talk to her about everything.
planning it alone would be impossible.
what do i know about the world outside?
of course i didn't leave him out on this.
he will be a part of it anyway.
and the house should, and will be under both our names.
paying it together half and half.
to be honest,
we talk about marriage more than about the wedding.
'coz we both agree on having the simplest wedding that both our parents allow.
but since both of us are the eldest and i am the only daughter and he is the only son and most probably a simple wedding is not going to happen. haha.
but we have this concept of "preparing for the marriage more than the wedding" since the wedding will only be just for 2-3 days whereas the marriage is for a lifetime and hereafter, inshaAllah.
although people say that money won't buy happiness,
but not earning and not managing money well will only cause the opposite of happiness in this materialistic world.
so i guess planning out the financial plan from now does not bring any harm.
i believe that planning ahead makes me more focused and determined to achieve a certain goal.
i am still in a dilemma about when i should continue my studies.
to be honest, i'd love to just continue on with my Masters Degree and PhD right away.
but my parent's current financial status makes me think twice.
hopefully things would change in the near future.
nevertheless, we can only plan.
yet He is the best planner, and His plans are always the best.
inshaAllah, if all goes well, i will be graduating in 18 months' time.
just another 3 semesters to go.
and i bet it will go so fast.
graduating means the end of degree life,
and the beginning of the real life.
whether or not i continue my studies doesn't really make any difference.
'coz commitments has already been made by then.
i got carried away with "planning the future" in my head this evening.
i started looking up online about car loans and house loans.
and talked about it with my mother as well.
well, she is my best friend. of course i talk to her about everything.
planning it alone would be impossible.
what do i know about the world outside?
of course i didn't leave him out on this.
he will be a part of it anyway.
and the house should, and will be under both our names.
paying it together half and half.
to be honest,
we talk about marriage more than about the wedding.
'coz we both agree on having the simplest wedding that both our parents allow.
but since both of us are the eldest and i am the only daughter and he is the only son and most probably a simple wedding is not going to happen. haha.
but we have this concept of "preparing for the marriage more than the wedding" since the wedding will only be just for 2-3 days whereas the marriage is for a lifetime and hereafter, inshaAllah.
although people say that money won't buy happiness,
but not earning and not managing money well will only cause the opposite of happiness in this materialistic world.
so i guess planning out the financial plan from now does not bring any harm.
i believe that planning ahead makes me more focused and determined to achieve a certain goal.
i am still in a dilemma about when i should continue my studies.
to be honest, i'd love to just continue on with my Masters Degree and PhD right away.
but my parent's current financial status makes me think twice.
hopefully things would change in the near future.
nevertheless, we can only plan.
yet He is the best planner, and His plans are always the best.
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